I have written a good deal about Hiv testing and the people given the diagnosis. I have written from a critical perspective on the tests and drugs used, and have found some significant causes for concern in the field. I think what is most troubling to me is the absolutely final nature of the diagnosis itself. I find it to be terribly shocking, and I think, terribly unfair.
What I would like is to hear your stories, if you’re willing to share them, as I try to better understand the phenomenon of testing positive, and how it affects the people who are given this diagnosis.
I know it is a sensitive and trying subject. I will not permit any criticism or negative comments to be directed at people sharing their stories, whatever their beliefs about Aids or Hiv may be. Please share your story in as much, or little detail as you feel comfortable doing. You can use an alias, and please don’t give any full names of people you reference in your story - a first name and initial is fine.
But please do share how it affected you. I think this is something that people don’t understand well enough, or hear enough about. Getting this diagnosis can be shocking, devastating, and life-altering. I would like to create a better public awareness of how it affects individuals.
Some questions that I’d like to ask are,
- What questions did they ask you when you tested? Where did you test? A hospital, pregnancy clinic, STD clinic, Planned Parenthood, through the mail?
- Who told you? How did they tell you? What did you hear them say? What did you feel, think, say, do?
- Who did you tell? Who didn’t you tell? What were your thoughts and fears?
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How has it affected you since, and what do you think about the diagnosis today?
You can post your thoughts or story below. Thank you for your time and effort.
- Liam